No pressure — we ask because it helps us write the right stories for you.
Single and actively dating
Single and happily solo right now
In a relationship — and it's going well
In a relationship — but intimacy has faded
Long distance / often apart
Something else
What brought you here to try it?
Pick as many as you like.
Stressed, mind racing — I needed a real off-switch
Just curious what this is
No partner right now — but still wanted to feel something
Partner's there, but sex has all but stopped
I wanted to learn more about my own desires
Regular porn has never done it for me
Dipsea / Quinn / another subscription was too expensive or annoying
Someone recommended it to me
A lot has shifted since pregnancy / motherhood
I felt my sexuality had gotten lost somewhere along the way
Something else
How do you usually use the stories?
Pick as many as you like.
To fall asleep / unwind with no goal
Specifically to come
To savor it slowly and intensely — no rush to the end
Just to live the fantasy in my head — no touching
With or after my partner — as inspiration
In the morning when I wake up / as a ritual
On the go — headphones in, no one knows
Something else
When do you like to listen — and how often?
Pick as many times of day as you like.
Time of day
In the evening before falling asleep
At night, when everyone's asleep
First thing in the morning
During the day, when I have a break
No set pattern
Frequency
Almost daily
Several times a week
Once or twice a week
Rarely, but when I do, it's intentional
I haven't listened that much yet
What did it bring up inside you?
Not what you heard — what you actually felt. Pick as many as you like.
I finally felt desirable again
I could leave everyday life behind for a bit
The first time it felt like: this is really for me
I discovered something new about myself
A safe space with no expectations
Connection — even though I was alone
A little guilt at first — then it faded
It was okay, but no wow-moment yet
Something else
What bothered you most before SoftSins?
Pick as many as you like — about other platforms or just in general.
Subscriptions I forget to cancel
Stories I couldn't see myself in
Voices that didn't turn me on
Too explicit and direct — no build-up, no imagination
Not explicit enough — too tame, no tension
The feeling that it wasn't made for me
Too much scrolling, searching, filtering
Poor audio quality
No themes or fantasies that fit me
I never really tried any of this — SoftSins was my first attempt
Something else
What did you try before this?
Before you found us.
Nothing at all — this was my first attempt
Dipsea (canceled or annoyed me)
Quinn / Ferly / another audio app
Regular visual porn (didn't fit)
Erotic books / Wattpad / fanfiction
Erotic podcasts / free audio
Just imagination in my head
Something else
How would you describe yourself when it comes to your sexuality?
No test, no right answer. Pick as many as you like.
I'm rediscovering myself right now
I know what I like — but rarely act on it
I'm open and curious, I love trying new things
I used to be more open than I am now
Intimacy matters to me, but my head and daily life often get in the way
I neglected this for a long time — without noticing what I was missing
I'm pretty shy about it — even with myself
Something else
What do you wish you had more of in real life?
What listening sparked — and what you'd like to feel more often beyond the stories too.
Just more closeness — not necessarily sex
More desire and longing — the kind I actually feel
For someone to take the lead
Time for me — without the guilt
A partner who really sees me
More openness about what I actually want
Less mental load, so there's room for desire at all
I'm pretty content right now — the story is a bonus
Something else
What absolutely has to be in your perfect story?
Pick as many as you like.
Slow build — tension that grows
Someone who takes the lead
Real emotion, not just bodies
A charged moment with a stranger
Someone you know — and finally…
Luxurious setting — hotel, trip, somewhere special
Everyday situation that tips into something else
A voice and words that speak directly to me
More than two people
Something else
What should never show up in a story?
Just as important as what you like.
Too much dominance / submission
Too romantic / cheesy
Too raw and direct with no build-up
Group scenes
Female narrator
Male narrator
Certain settings (e.g. office, gym, doctor)
Something else
Have you talked to anyone about this?
No judgment — just curious.
Yes, with a close friend
Yes, with my partner
No — I keep it to myself
No, but I'd recommend it if someone asked
I'd actively recommend it — more women should know about this
Something else
What would you love to see next?
Helps us understand what to build for you next.
A longer multi-part story with the same character
More variety of voices / narrators
Stories for specific moments (travel, after-work ritual, weekend)
A story I can listen to with my partner
Shorter stories for in-between moments (under 10 minutes)
An audio course about desire, body, your own wishes
Just more of what I already know
Something else
Mind sharing a bit about your experience?
What did your life around intimacy and desire look like before you found SoftSins? What has shifted? What's still missing? The more honest, the better we can write for you. Your answer stays anonymous.
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